Before deciding on your
bridesmaids outfits, you need to choose your
personal white for your wedding dress. Your wedding dress should be colour
coordinated with your dominant colour and the personal colouring of your
bridesmaids.
In order to choose the right white you need to know what your dominant
colour is. Your dominant colour depends on your skin, eye and hair colour. Make
sure when you buy your wedding outfit that your hair colour won't be different
on your wedding day because this could affect your dominant colour and
ultimately your personal white and the colour for your brides maids outfits.
Once you know your perfect white you can start to colour coordinate your
bridesmaids, your mother, the flower girls, your flower bouquet, the table
decorations for your reception and so on.
Choosing outfits to suit you all can be tricky if there are alot of
bridesmaids or there is a large age range. Adults won’t want to be dressed the
same as children, and the bride should bear in mind that the outfit(s) she picks
need to flatter people of different ages (and sizes!).
Alternatively, you can ask all your bridesmaids to wear the same style and
fabric, but let them choose the colour from the colour palette, which works best
with your personal white, wedding theme, wedding season (summer or winter
wedding) and with your wedding place (UK or overseas wedding).
In fact, you think she may have coped the dress exactly from My Big Fat
Greek Wedding. It even poofs out at the bottom like a mermaid tail. You end up
paying over $300 for this dress and with alterations, you still feel like a
clown and look like a lampshade. You vow, you'll pick attractivebridesmaid
dresses someday. But when that day rolls around, can you be trusted? Personally,
I have been in five weddings and have attended well over thirty in my life. Now
as my peers are reaching their mid-twenties, more and morewedding announcements
are appearing in my mailbox.
As a dutifully bridesmaid, I will of course, wear
any dress the bride chooses. However, after attending so many weddings and
watching numerous bridesmaid atrocities walk down the aisle, there are a few
things that I have learned about bridesmaid dresses. There are also a few things
that your bridesmaids would love for you to consider before you choose a dress.
Hopefully, as my days as a bridesmaid increase, my own friends will take the
following things into consideration.
Styles - A-line dresses which look great on all different body shapes and
sizes are very popular. The hottest styles right now are two-tone, two-piece
floor length styles, mostly sleeveless. Also very popular are column style
dresses, floor length, halter top or straps criss-crossing over the back and
sleeveless. Another big trend is having a shawl accompany the dress,
particularly the barer styles.
Colors - Platinum is very in style at the moment, as well as the paler
colors, pale yellows, sand, and taupe. There is also a trend toward burgundy and
hunter for Fall weddings too. Black is always in style and always a popular
choice among both brides and their bridesmaids. In addition, many of the
designers today are also using better quality fabrics like dupioni silk, silk
chiffon and satin, velvet and crepe.
Combinations - Another trend is to choose a manufacturer that offers
different styles in the same fabric and color and letting each bridesmaid chose
the style they look best in. You could apply some simple rules - no dress above
the knee, or no strapless dress (or whatever look you want for your wedding).
Another popular and pretty trend, especially for spring and summer weddings, is
a "color run". That means that each bridesmaid wears a different color of the
same dress.
Although today there is less tradition around colors, styles and seasons,
it is always wise to use common sense. For example, it would not be wise to
choose a short cut and strapless bridesmaid dress during the winter, while a
heavy material during the summer in an outdoor ceremony.
Your bridesmaids have very different heights and figures.
You have a mix of child and adult attendants.
Your bridesmaids are from different cultural backgrounds.
You can’t imagine your choice of attendants being happy dressed
identically.
Consider body type and size before choosing a dress style. Sure, you love
that sleek and simple satin sheath gown and it would definitely look classy at
your wedding. But your best friend with a D-cup and runner's thighs is going to
spend all night trying to hide behind her bouquet. Classic gowns can look great
on all varities of bodies.
Unless you have a group of women that are all 34B and
wear a size 6 jean, there are certain styles you should avoid. A strapless,
empire-waist dress might look good on you, but will it on a bigger friend? Are
some of your bridesmaids moms? Strapless bras are great, but for some pregnancy
and breast-feeding can wreak havoc with what used to be young, perky breasts.
Don't force her into a strapless gown just because it's what you would wear.
Your bridesmaid dress choices should be more about what will make your
bridesmaids look beautiful and less about what kind of dress you would want to
wear. You're not wearing it and if they don't look good, it'll show in your
pictures forever.
Keep it simple. Some of the most awful bridesmaid dresses are just that
because there is far too much going on with them. Avoid bunchy material, extra
bows, lace, ribbon, sleeves, beading or sequence. A simple a-line, floor-length
lined gown with an empire waist and simple straps looks beautiful on nearly
everyone. Instead of trying to do something original or unique, try going for a
classic look.
When it comes to picking your bridesmaid dresses, the decision is
ultimately yours and yours alone. However, don't try to find something to please
anyone else. Of course, what you like should be your first priority because it
is your wedding. But if you can manage to find something you like that will
compliment your bridesmaid's natural beauty, your wedding will be all the more
beautiful. Remember also that there's a good chance these women will also be
choosing bridesmaid dresses for you at some point. Don't turn your weddings into
a competition as to who could pick the worst dresses. Instead, choose a dress
that will have everyone at your wedding commenting on how incredibly classy you
really are.